Friendsgiving has become increasingly popular and is a fun way to bring people together who may not be spending the holiday with their own families. Here are some tips for hosting a stress-free and memorable Friendsgiving, whether you want it to feel cozy, elevated or globally inspired.
Pick a Date + Create a Guest List
- Friendsgiving can be held the day before Thanksgiving or on the day itself, depending on your guest list. Lock it in early for easier planning.
- Decide on the number of guests and whether you’re inviting adults, children, co-workers, etc. With that in mind, you can pre-plan for a fun event.
Make it a Collaborative Meal
- Unless you’re hosting a catered event, invite people to bring different dishes - potluck style is the heart of Friendsgiving and allows people to enjoy a piece of home at your dinner.
- Create a shared document or group chat for guests to choose from different categories - starters, sides, dessert - so you don’t end up with too many in one category.
- Encourage each person to bring a dish with a story - a family recipe, a cultural favorite or something from their travels.
Create a Drink Station
- A signature cocktail such as mulled wine, sangria, or a bourbon apple punch, sets the tone.
- Set up a self-serve bar with mixers, glassware and garnish bowls to make life easier for all.
- Add non-alcoholic options for adult guests and children.
Gratitude Tree
- Create a simple “tree” by placing a branch or two in a jar filled with dried beans. Cut paper into small pieces and attach a string.
- Have each guest write a note of gratitude on the paper to hang from the tree.
Read the notes at dinner.